2016/04/08 (Fri) Good Ways to Build Up Healthy Relationships

 

              Good Ways to Build Up Healthy Relationships  
 
  
              “The greatest power you have on earth, whether you are an angel, a spirit, a man or woman or child is to help others.” This is one of the sentences in the book “Servant of the Bones” which was written by Anne Rice in 1996. Helping other people is one of the things we can do every day, every moment. This can be categorized as “kindness”. Kindness is a thing that provides warmth to everyone’s heart and gives heat. Kindness is a thing that fits everyone and produces many big smiles. Kindness is like the big shiny sun in the sky; it is warm and connects everyone  together into one. Helping people can be one of the ways to express kindness. There are also many other ways to express kindness to other people and build up good and healthy relationships.
 
 

              Be the type of person who you want to meet and befriend; also treat others the way you want to be treated. We should all give people warmth and treat them with care, appreciation, and consideration. People will all treat you in the same way that you treated them. When you begin to treat people with kindness and warmth, you will soon notice that they also treat you very kindly. On the other hand, when you begin to look down on someone or not get along with them in a friendly way, you will notice a change in their behavior towards you. They will treat you in a disrespecting and unfriendly way. They would act as annoying as you expected or even more. People all want love and respect from others but sometimes we don’t want to give love and respect. If everyone in this world is waiting for someone else to be kind before they become kind in return, the world would be messed up with no kindness at all. I believe no one is expecting this kind of world and everyone wants the world to be full of kindness. Thus, I think treating other people in the way you want to be treated builds up very good connected relationships between you and other people, and this is able to lead to a world of kindness.
                                                                                                                              

              Respecting others is also important. Respecting is one of the two things that mainly build up good and healthy relationships. In order to build up good relationships with people, respecting their ideas, opinions, and differences is very necessary. Respecting means showing that you value, and you are trying to understand other people’s perspectives, time, space, opinions, and differences. For instance, considering other people’s feelings, making eye contact, and not saying mean words or words that make people feel bad could be some of the examples. Furthermore, making efforts to treat other people in a way that makes them feel good can also be one of the ways to respect someone. I believe that the people who can respect others will also gain respects and will have very good relationships with other people and they will be able to have wonderful lives.
                                                                                     
         The last of the two things that mainly build up good and healthy relationships is trust. Trusting people means you believe in them and you are giving them responsibilities to do things. Trusting has many benefits on building social relationships. Try to imagine a world where you can freely and openly trust other people and can let them handle their own responsibilities. I believe this kind of situation will provide many meaningful and colourful connections between people. The social connections and relationships would be enhanced when you trust more. Trusting makes the whole world, the relationships people have in this world become tighter, better, and more and more meaningful. Moreover, trusting other people can also allow you to gain more freedom, time, and efficiency.

         In order to build good and healthy relationships, I believe that considering other people’s feelings and opinions are one of the most important things. Treating people the way you want to be treated, respecting other people, and trusting other people, these are all about the consideration of kindness towards other people in this world. Kindness is a thing that brings everyone together. It lets people have very good, healthy, and meaningful relationships with others. No matter who you are, or what you are, kindness is a thing that brings everyone together. To conclude my writing, I would like to use this quote which was written by Mark Twain. “Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” I hope that the whole world can be connected by the meaningful relationships without caring about skin colours, nationalities, and the problems they might have.

Bibliography

 http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/kindness?page=1

Goodreads, Quotes About Kindness, author and date written are unknown, Date Retrieved: April 7, 2016